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God and the Gay Gene - Alan on New Man eMagazine

July 8th, 2008 · No Comments

…I see the “gay gene” argument as nebulous, unnecessary and futile, in most cases. Don’t get me wrong—I am not opposed to scientists researching homosexuality. The discovery of a gay gene or proof that there isn’t one and any other helpful information would be welcome news to this inquiring mind. How I am wired genetically [...]

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Tags: Christianity · Current Affairs · Ex-Gay · Exodus · Homosexuality · Research

Eye On Outreach

June 26th, 2008 · 13 Comments

In the news …
Eye On Outreach: Exodus International
Group Brings Hope and Change to Homosexuals
Posted on: 06/26/2008
by Renee Targos
Fifteen years ago, Randy Thomas, executive vice president of Exodus International, was living life as a gay man. “All of my relational, political and social needs were defined by a worldview that fed my appetites and met my [...]

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Tags: Christianity · Church · Ex-Gay · Exodus · Gay · Homosexuality · Internet

Pondering Gay Marriage in California

June 17th, 2008 · 18 Comments

I have spent the better part of two hours writing a post about Gay marriage in California. Normally I am all over this issue and full of opinions. Now … it is honestly and probably one of the most difficult “marriage” posts I have written. At least that’s what it feels like. In the rough [...]

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Tags: Christianity · Church · Gay · marriage

Hidden Treasures

June 16th, 2008 · 4 Comments

Today I was cleaning out my desk and I found all kinds of stuff. I love being a random thinker (not ADD… just random) because anytime I clean out anything its like a whole new adventure of, “wow! I remember that!”
I like the picture with the “know it all” ribbon. It is funny. My Aunt [...]

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Tags: Asides · Gifts · Humor · Photography

Father’s Day 2008

June 15th, 2008 · 2 Comments

Father’s day is a little interesting for me. I often meditate on where my Bio Dad is and what he is doing. He never was a part of our lives and then completely disappeared when I was 10. I later found him when I was 18. We were only in the semblance of a relationship [...]

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Tags: Christianity · Holiday · Men · family

Grace Quotient for Cuss Words

June 14th, 2008 · 8 Comments

… I have totally used up all my grace quotient for cuss words for the year today.
Ok ok… I know. Where sin exists, grace abounds that much more. I am embarrassed over my very carnal reaction today even though my friends have told me not to worry about it. They say that what I did [...]

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Tags: Christianity · Friends · Life · Men · People · War Against Whining

Anatomy of Migraine

June 3rd, 2008 · 13 Comments

Last night I went to bed with a headache. I woke up with a headache. I took some Advil right after getting to work … no effect. In fact it got worse.
Light started stabbing me … mercilessly.
Then I could smell a fly fart from three miles away.
Every little smell is magnified to [...]

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Tags: Asides · Health · Humor · Nature

The Will to Blog

May 28th, 2008 · No Comments

Amazing, and revealing, article by Emily Gould titled Exposed was featured in the New York Times Magazine.
Amy T. sent this to me saying that she thought I would enjoy the article and I did very much. Thank you Amy!
There is so much I want to quote from this article. There are many launching [...]

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Tags: Christianity · Current Affairs · People · War Against Whining · Web/Tech · Writing · blogging

A Memoir Conundrum

May 17th, 2008 · 7 Comments

I was in DC last week for a Pastor’s conference. It ended Friday around 2pm and our next meeting was really a birthday party at 6pm. In between I took a nap and then went to Barnes & Noble. While there I saw a book by Augusten Burroughs called A Wolf At [...]

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Tags: Book Review · Books · Current Affairs · Ex-Gay · Gay · Homosexuality · Life · People · Worldview · Writing · art

Gay Marriage In California?

May 15th, 2008 · 17 Comments

Apparently so.
An article by AdvanceUSA, in which I interviewed for, was published today.  I will lift two quotes as something I think speaks to today’s decision.  The first quote does not address the decision directly but I hope it will speak to how I approach these type of public policy issues.  The second quote does [...]

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Tags: Activism · Christianity · Culture War · Current Affairs · Exodus · Gay · Gender · Homosexuality · Lesbianism · Life · People · Politics · Public Policy · Sexuality · Worldview · family · marriage